Sex is the one thing you cannot really swindle; and it is the centre of the worst swindling of all, emotional swindling.... Sex lashes out against counterfeit emotion, and is ruthless, devastating against false love.
There is a false love that will make you something you are not.
True love is doing what is good for a person. False love is doing only that which causes that person to love you more.
In true love you want your partner to be happy. In false love you want your partner.
False love is only blinder.