There are only two rules for being successful. One, figure out exactly what you want to do, and two, do it.
Most of us have achieved levels of affluence and comfort unthought of two generations ago. We've never had it so good, most of us. Nor have we ever complained so bitterly about our problems.
Decide exactly what you want to achieve. Do you want to help people, or do you want to be powerful?
You will not be able to tell that they are capable of greatness until you provide them with a packed house, a 3-and-2 count and the game is on the line.